I didn't know Chris on a personal level. We attended the same High school. But he was the class clown always joking around. My heart and prayers go out to his fiance and his family at this time.
Baby, I don't know what I'm going to do without you. I am so numb. I was so looking forward to marrying you and spending my life with you. You will be with me every day of my life, and I know you are watching out for me. It's just not real. I know you are so happy in Heaven, and I will see you when it's my time. I miss you so much. I love you.
My heart hasn't been this heavy, nor my mind so cloudy in as long as I can remember. Chris was my first college roommate and we spent two years at Alma College in a dorm room together, and countless hours on the basketball court and around campus causing shananigans. Bucket, as we called him, was one of the most unique and special people I've ever known, and ever will. It's hard not to get emotional at a time like this, and I can't help but cry because he will be so missed. On the other hand I've got so many stories and times I can think of that will make me smile and laugh for the rest of my life thanks to the big fella. No way I'll be able to listen to Gordo or Dylan without choking back tears, but be assured I still will listen to bring me closer to Chris. I'm never going to forget our "catching up" conversations because they were random, but always seemed like we never missed a beat. They were a combination of jovial exchanges and life lessons and progressions. If I could only laugh with him one more time!! My sincerest sympathies are sent to his family, fiance', and all those that loved him like I did. He's no doubt fitted with a robust pair of wings in heaven now, and I will try to take comfort in that, but I miss him so much. This experience will change my life forever, and because of Chris I will be a better person for the rest of my life. My faith will not waiver and my smile and kindness will flow freely, because that's what Chris would do.
I was a good friend of Chris's in high school... he takes center stage in many of my "teenaged memories." Though I had not seen him in a few years, I still remember his wonderful ability to make people feel special, his great sense of humor, and of course, all of those "urges." I'm sure Chris is making God laugh and roll His eyes now, as he has done with so many of us.
Chris was bigger than life in more ways than just his height. He was one of the few people I knew that instantly brightened a room. He was addictive to be around. I didn't get to see him as frequently as I would have liked and sometimes I would show up at the reunions and feel a little awkward having not seen anyone in so long, but that went away immediately when Christopher saw you.
He would walk up to you and embrace you like you had spent the entire summer together. He was a fantastic cousin and more importantly an incredible person. He was compassionate, loving, kind, smart, and hilarious.
I'll miss you Big Aristotle. We all will. But I know that should I make it to heaven one day and feel a bit out of place or awkward, you'll be there to give me a hug and a laugh.
I will never forget the times we spent joking around at olive garden while waiting to be seated by the hostess. Nor will I let go of the memories of the few times he would run me over on the basketball court. He was the most personable, outgoing, caring man anyone could ever know and i am honored to say I was a friend of his. Chris we planned to play golf this summer when I saw u and your fiance' at cracker barrel. I am sad that we have to have a rain check on this but one day we will play on the best golf course ever when I get there. My heart and prayers go out to the his family, fiance', and friends. Life is a gift and we must treasure it and never take it for granted.
Life is full of the unexpected but I would have never unexpected this. Chris was warm, funny, and down to earth. The reunion memories are endless with Chris. My favorite is when we were leaving the fish house and trying to make it back to Dixon, MS. We blinked and missed the sign, we all must have laughed for hours. I agree with James, there was never awkwardness with Chris.
Chris, you are an amazing person and now you are in an amazing place. Give grandma a hug from all of us.
Aunt Diann, Uncle Doug, Sara and Lauren - words cannot express how I feel and I cannot imagine how you feel. My deepest symapthy's are will all of you. Love you.
Seel...my God. I was always next to you alphabetically in school, and I actually felt short for once, standing next to you. I also felt like I would cry laughing. You and I had independent computer study together, just us, and the laughs rolled continously. Anyone that sat in the trombone section or near to it was always in stitches thanks to you. I just can't express how terrible I feel for your fiance and family, but I know that having you in their lives at all was a blessing for them. Let no one take their time with those they love for granted; you have taught us this. Got love for you Seel. -Seales
chris and I worked together for several years and his sister is one of my closest friends. We had one of those love hate relationships. I looked at him like a big brother a lot of the times. He would have me mad as all sin one minute and then cracking up laughing on the floor the next. Never in my life have I ever meet someone with so much character and I'm pretty sure I never will. I still cant make sense of it, I don't think anyone can. I do KNOW that he is with God and that gives me some peace.To his finance I can't imagine your pain. I will pray daily for God to give you strength and guidance to get you through this hard time. To his family I love you and you are in my constant thoughts and prayers
I remember Chris for his infectious sense of humor and how every day in mr. Hager's class he would find some crazy word in the dictionary and use it all day long as his "word of the day". My prayers go out to his family and fiance. You sure did know how to make a person smile Chris, you will be missed.
Wow-this came to a real shock to me as I am sure to many. I feel for your mother. It has to be the worse thing to happen to a mother - loosing your child. So young, so much to live for, and do yet. Chris & I were friend in high school & fellow players of the great game of basketball. Memories of many hours playing baseball at His Place/youth group (as with many others of you). I love that group of people. Chris included got me through some hard adolestant/middle school experiences. My heart hurts for Chris' family and fiance. I am so sorry for your loss. But have to say so I am grateful to have know Chris. I'll pray for you all. Tracey Roberts-Fuller
Seelbach-YOU WERE JUST HERE! I just can NOT wrap my head around this. You were always very interested in all of us. You always seemed to really care when you asked how we were. I enjoyed how you hung on every detail of a story as if it was THE most amazing thing you had ever heard..
also-i know i can speak for alot of folks when i say that our vernacular had been enhanced having met you! hahaha
I am so sad for your family and Lauren-I am sad for my husband not having you around.. You were a great friend to us...and we will miss you so much!
Chris was a good friend of mine from middle and high school. He was so funny and full of life, very curious and asking tons of questions, and always making random/hilarious comments. Whenever I hear Gordon Lightfoot, I will always think of Seel and smile.
I am very confused and sad right now. The only sense I can make out of this is that God has bigger plans for him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and fiance. Chris has touched many different people and we will all mis him. All my love Seel!
Seel... seriously, in your own words, this is UN-real. The solace I find is in knowing you were a man of faith and I know you are with Christ now. My hear goes out to the family and friends and we will miss you greatly. I loved having you as a roomate at Anderson and I will never forget the laughs we had. Go with God and make sure you request a little Gordon Lightfoot while you are there.
Chris I have only fond memories of you. While I was with Taylor you were with Adam, and that alone was crazy enough but you always made it crazier!
I lived for your urges even when Adam was only egging you on. Playing basketball in my backyard, your epic battles with Big Rog. The away Michigan games would not have been the same if Seel wasn't in the picture.
I can only pray and wish the best for Seel's family and loved ones. My heart goes out to you in these trying times. But take comfort in knowing that although he is no longer with us I can't think of anyone better to watch down on us and protect, guide, and urge us in our own lives.
I will always remember you seel, and someday even tell my kids all about "Meat Chicken"
Chris, I love you man. You've been my best friend and BROTHER since first grade. We know everything about each other, have laughed, cried, fought, and gotten into lots of trouble together over the last 23 years. No one could make me madder and no one could make me laugh harder than you. I have too many WONDERFUL memories with you to even mention. You had such a huge impact on my life, bigger than you even know. Never did I think the good Lord would take you home this early in your life but I find a small bit of peace in knowing you are making God laugh at this very moment with your crazy shenanigans. Your loss will sadden me for the rest of my life for it is not easy to lose a brother and I already long for the day we can have a good laugh once again in Heaven. I love you bro, I love you deeply.
I played ball with Chris at Anderson and, while he was only there one year, I have SOOO many memories. I will carry each of them with me for the rest of my life - and laugh everytime I think of them! Seelbach, I loved talking sports with you and always enjoyed the times we spent together either watching games on TV or going up to Purdue to catch one. We had so many football and basketball games to go to (ones that we even already had scheduled) and I'm going to miss you not being there with me. What's so strange about this for me is that we just hung out over the weekend - and had a blast, too! I'm glad we got those 2 days together and finally got in our first round of golf together. Seelbach, you were a good buddy and I'll miss you.
Doug, Diane, Sara and Lauren - you will all be in my prayers.
There is something to be said about a person that makes you feel like you have known them a lifetime when you have only just met them. Chris was one of the first people I had the privilege of meeting at family reunions and was immediately moved by his embracing kindness. His bright smile, friendship and curious wit always made him a pleasure to be around. I will always remember you this way and feel deeply saddened and shocked by your loss. May your family and friends find comfort and strength from seeing how many lives you touched with your pure soul.
Chris was my best friend---I was lucky enough to spend a day with him a few weeks ago--although we didn't see each other that often, we spoke on the phone nearly every day. The kid had an amazing zest for life--always smiling, always upbeat--you always knew he genuinely cared about you and what was going on in your life. Anybody who has met Chris knows how unique he really was---you meet a person like Chris once in a lifetime. I already miss him so much--we may lay his body to rest on Saturday, but I will carry my memories of him with me for the rest of my days. No post about Chris could ever be complete without quoting some Dylan or Lightfoot---so for my fallen friend I leave this--"seen a shooting star tonight and I thought of you--you were trying to break into another world, a world I never knew--seen a shooting star tonight and I thought of you." Bob Dylan
Seel- I am grateful that we got to hang out one last time a few weeks ago. I can not put into words the deluge of emotions flowing right now. You have had such an impact on my life, as well as so many others. I have spent the last two days with Paul and Dave. We have spent a great deal of time listening to Gordon and Bob and looking at pictures. The memories and stories we shared have crossed a diverse spectrum of emotions. We have laughed, cried, had ups, had downs and we went into deep thought provoking discussions on life. You would have been right at home! I will miss you deeply! Craig Freestone
It's impossible to put into words what a wonderful person Chris was. He was obviously an extremely genuine person as he made an impact on all of our lives. To use his words, he was UNNNNNNNreal. Take the time to treasure all of the special times you had with him and be grateful that you were able to have him in your life. I know he will forever be smiling down on all of us with that twinkle in his eye. I will never forget all of the great things he brought to my life.
What a man Chris was. I unfortunately did not have the privilege of knowing Chris very well but, I always thought how loving it was that he would come have lunch with Lauren at the hospital. They were so cute together eating lunch on her break. And not to mention, his AMAZING proposal to Lauren in the hospital chapel. WOW ! He really loved her so much. I know he will be missed by so many people.
Travis and I were talking about the fact that sincerely there was not another person we knew quite like Chris. His humor and genuine interest in the lives of others was such a special thing. He also kept us on our toes with his random use of interesting and never before heard words- vernacular happened to be one I always remember. I am certain Travis has many more stories to share but from my end I will always remember Chris's huge smile, big hugs, and upbeat personality. My heart and prayers go to all of his family and loved ones. Jess Daugherty
Chris was a close friend in middle school and high school. He only lived a few blocks away so I spent many days shooting hoops in his driveway. Chris had such a unique personality. He would do the craziest things to make people laugh. I always remember him saying "say it again, Jill, say it again." Of course I would say what ever it was again just to make him happy. Chris will be deeply missed by many friends and family. I am keeping Chris and his family in my prayers.
I first became friends with Chris in college through classes. And he picked on me everyday after that. I think our professors hated us! I miss going to visit him after college, when he bought his house and I got to come see what he had done to it and what he was going to do to it. He was so excited! It was fun to see him so excited about something he was doing because normally he was busy asking about you or what you were up to. And of course there were the Gordo concerts... I will miss his Gordo and Dylan serenades and his honesty. Chris would always tell it like it is. Too many memories to count. I miss you already Seel. My thoughts and prayers go out to Lauren and Chris' family.
Chris, my memories of you serve as a reminder of what good friends are for -- to keep us from taking ourselves too seriously.
You delighted me with your antics throughout middle and high school...from opening my calculator before class to find something hilarious written by you in upside-down type, to those snakes that failed to survive our biology "experiment," and most of all, that eager smile and throw your head back laugh. Growing up was so much more fun because you were around to give it your wise, lighthearted touch. You treated each of us like we were the most fascinating person you'd ever met, and everyone was drawn to you (probably because you actually were the most fascinating person we'd ever met). We were blessed with your friendship. You will be dearly missed.
Chris ambled into our family and our hearts in 2000, his last year at Alma College. He greeted each new day as an adventure and took us along with him. His enthusiasm was contagious.
Our shared interest was Gordon Lightfoot. When he learned that I still had my original GL records from the 60’s in the basement, he just about flew down the stairs to see them. He loved them and I knew he was the perfect person to be their new owner. It is sweet to read the common thread that GL played in so many of Chris’ friendships.
To the Seelbach family, Lauren, and all of Chris’ friends, my prayers go with you in the weeks and months ahead.
Seel you will be missed....what a loved man you are. You had a way of accepting people for who they were and really were interested in finding out who that was. We had many great times for the one year we had together at Anderson. We automatically clicked over our love of the old hymns....constantly bugging your roommates by singing many a duet as loudly as possible! I remember when you invited me home for an early thanksgiving meal with your family, you all made me feel very welcome and I had a great time. You blessed me by being an usher in my wedding and made the whole day so much fun for all those there. You even got to walk my 4'9" grandmother down the aisle and made her laugh by saying, "what's up shorty?" That was quite the picture! You have made a forever imprint on my life and on all of those that you have met. This is UN-real but I know that you are up singing the Church's Jubilee with Jesus and all of the saints who have gone on before you! I can't wait to sing some more duets when we meet again! My prayers are with your family, Lauren, and your closest of friends!
I am sorry that your life ended so shortly. You were an amazing person who I will never forget. I still remember practice when you were so mad and you said things were a "debackle".
You introduced me to Gordon Lightfoot and because of you, I listen to him often. I wish I could have spoken to you one last time to just say hi and ask you how life was going.
Doug and Diane, you had an amazing son! We all loved "Bucket".
I met Chris my junior year of college and boy, did he bring new words and excitement into my life! I remember him inviting me to come to Olive Garden where he worked so he could "hook us up" with OG specials. I had the honor of writing a story on Chris for one of my journalism classes Senior year. Chris always brought a smile to my face and was always a genuine man. I didn't know much about Gordon Lightfoot until Chris exposed me to his songs. I have since downloaded my favorite Gordon Lightfoot song in honor of Chris. I will never forget Chris and the way he impacted those around him. I don't understand why this happened, however, I can only hope God is laughing in heaven by having Chris at his side. My prayers are with Chris's fiance and family.
Chris made my first year of college so easy. I had the pleasure of hanging out with him and getting to know some of his other wonderful friends. I'll never forget him.
My thoughts and prayers go out to his fiance and family.
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My name is Tony Colucci. I played basketball with Chris at Alma College from 1997-2000. I was deeply saddened by the news of Chris’ passing (oddly enough Chris passed on my 30th birthday). I cannot say enough how much I appreciated his presence the 3-4 years that Chris was in my life. He was a breath of fresh air, a devoted teammate (no matter the circumstance), and a concerned friend.
Those that don’t know - I have the honor of being the person who coined the nickname “Bucket”. The first time I played basketball with Chris, I made a pass to him as he was “posting up”. For those that don’t understand basketball – a post pass is sometimes very difficult if the man posting up does not make himself “big” – Chris never had that difficulty. Thus, I said throwing a pass to him was as easy as throwing the ball into a huge “Bucket”…the nickname followed – and I am proud to see that it stuck.
Chris was physically in my life for a short time, but I cannot count how many times I have referenced him in a story or thought of him and smiled in the 7 or so years since I last spoke with him. His physical presence was indeed deserved of his nickname - the big “Bucket”… but I would be hard pressed to have the words or a nickname to describe the size of Chris’ heart. We have truly lost one of the good guys.
Thank you Bucket – Heaven has added a special player to their roster.
My sincerest prayers go out the Seelbachs and everyone that Chris impacted.
Chris and I met as cub scouts in second grade and our friendship continued through middle school and high school. There were many trips together and many games played together ('Potential Atrocity' was by far the best name for our team Chris). It's been said before but it merits being said again, this guy was larger than life - brightening every space he walked into. I love you man.
I will always remember our "David and Goliath" wars on Euclid street. I will always remember the sixteen-ply toliet incident that nearly caused me to rebuild my bathroom (and flood my basement). I will always remember you as one of the most intelligent people I have ever met. Most of all Seel, I will always remeber you as someone none of us will ever forget.
We all really miss you! I always looked forward to when you came to visit because I knew there would never be a dull moment during your stay! You always had some funny comment or story to tell me and Paul. I have so many wonderful and unforgettable memories that Paul and I had with you and I definitely will never forget any of them! You were definitely Paul's best friend and you probably talked to Paul more on a daily basis then I did! He looked up to you more than you will ever know. You were one of the most unique, intelligent, talented and caring individuals I have ever met and I know that I will never meet another person like you for the rest of my life. You are definitely one of a kind! (: You will be deeply missed.
I can see your big smile sometimes as I look up into the sky. Somewhere in the clouds I believe you are looking down and you see and some how know all of the incredibly, huge number of people who loved you so much and are amazed at how much you positively impacted so, so many people in so many ways. God probably doesn't let us know while we're still on the earth b/c He wants to keep us humble - if we knew perhaps we wouldn't stay as sweet, loving, caring, giving, and humble as you always were. I am so very blessed that God chose your family to be my foster family way back in 1987. After living with your family for only a short time, I knew, I was HOME. From the beginning you were always a sweet brother to me. You always loved me and accepted me as your then - bigger and older - and soon after just older sister. You were so fun and funny that when I felt out of place of insecure you just lightened things up and it helped me feel at home through some of the darkest and hardest days of my life. Then in the more recent years my children we again blessed to have you "their big uncle Chris" be a big positive, fun, loving, funny, giving, person in their lives. I thank God every time I think of you for giving me the unmerited blessing of having you "one of God's great specimans" be a special part of my, my husband, and my children's lives. It makes me realize more than ever how precious time is and how important it is to make the most of every moment I have with my children and the one's I love b/c we just never know how much more time we will have with each of them. So, God is reminding me to cherish each day with each person I love and each person He places in my life esp. my children b/c I never know if it could be my last.
We all miss you so much our hearts ache! But we are all able to laugh when we think of you and all of the joy and laughter you brought into our lives and we know that you are in Heavenly Bliss!
I look forward to seeing you there again someday Bub!
Haus, I’m listening to “Sundown” right now. Memories of Brad’s parent’s living room and Dos Equis are flowing through my head. I will never forget our dissection of Gordo’s lyrics!
chris....I miss you so much man... It was great for you to come back to Alma and reminisce....The intense games of basketball were well worth it....It was just great to have the conversation with you, I'm glad I was able to have you at my house for those 2 days. It's gonna stink to not see you at the Anderson football game this season...I was looking forward to seeing you after some of my games...It's gonna be tough that first game playin for Taylor to not see you afterwards.... Dad Gummit, I'm gonna miss you, you jackal! Thanks for always listening to me and making me feel important...It's really hard to see a guy like you to pass away....
PS. We'll have to play game 3 in heaven...No home court advantage that way!
It is hard for me to pick out a story or memory of Chris because we spent so much time together thru out life....it all was just normal to me. I have been having dreams of Chris.. which reminds of the proverbial pre-game rituals he would do...every single game. First there was the pregame "D" he took in the locker room. And yes this is what Pat Collins was talking about at the service...(Great Story!!) Pregame ritual #2, Chris would sit in front of his locker and sometimes need help picking what sock to put on first. He would have someone pick out the sock, start tapping his foot..probably about 8-12 times. Then in one swooping motion, he would try to put his sock on..always UNsuccessfuly on the first try. You guessed it, lets start tappin' the foot again, now he would try to to put on his sock again, but this time would try crossing his leg on top of his knee to put it on. FRIIIICKIN' A!!!! he would yell out as he would finally go thru that routine a few mores times, get the size 14's on and then go Frickin' DOMINATE whoever happened to be guarding him that night. I felt sorry for some of those guys who thought they could stop his patented spin move from the left block. (I knew if I passed it in I wasn't gettin' the ball back!!)You know it's comin', but there is absolutley nothing you can do to stop it. We didn't see this tragedy coming though Chris, I miss you bro.
I knew Chris when I was young and he was younger. We were on the basketball court together. He was trying to figure out how to be so big and tall, and I was trying to explain how it happened to me. And then we grew up at different stages and in different directions. And it wasn’t until I heard this news and read these remembrances that learned that he figured it out. I did not know Chris as a man, but I can see who he is through these words. I am proud of Chris for what he did in his life, who he touched along the way, and how he will be remembered by all. -jon kapp
I had seen Chris just a week before, as I was leaving for a trip, when him and Lauren asked about using my sound equipment for their reception. So, I set a reminder on my phone to get that ready for them when I got home the following week. What a strange and awful feeling it was when that reminder popped up saying, "Get sound equipment for Chris and Lauren's reception," right as I was getting ready to go to Chris' funeral. Life is an incredibly perplexing thing that is not always easy to accept. But thankfully, we have the hope that Christ gives us that the end of life on this earth is merely a step into an eternal life more immaculate and incredible than can be imagined. Lauren, Doug, Diann, Sara, and the rest of the Seelbach family: we haven't stopped praying for you as you continue to live the lives that God has blessed you with. It's hard to live with a person as vibrant, loving, and caring as Chris for a year and a half and not be impacted by him. Chris was a fantastic reflection of love of your family, Seelbachs. God did a good work with Chris through all of you. With love, Curt Anderson
My memories of Chris were during his time at Alma College. He was an awesome basketball player. He was my first introduction to Gordon Lightfoot. He always wore a smile and was just a fun person to be around. I knew his dad and got to know some of his friends from HS. I was shocked and surprised to hear about his passing and really want to send prayers to his family and very special fiance'. We'll all see him again someday and are comforted in knowing he's left a huge mark on our lives. He'll definitely be missed!
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I didn't know Chris on a personal level. We attended the same High school. But he was the class clown always joking around. My heart and prayers go out to his fiance and his family at this time.
Jammie King
Baby, I don't know what I'm going to do without you. I am so numb. I was so looking forward to marrying you and spending my life with you. You will be with me every day of my life, and I know you are watching out for me. It's just not real. I know you are so happy in Heaven, and I will see you when it's my time. I miss you so much. I love you.
My heart hasn't been this heavy, nor my mind so cloudy in as long as I can remember. Chris was my first college roommate and we spent two years at Alma College in a dorm room together, and countless hours on the basketball court and around campus causing shananigans. Bucket, as we called him, was one of the most unique and special people I've ever known, and ever will. It's hard not to get emotional at a time like this, and I can't help but cry because he will be so missed. On the other hand I've got so many stories and times I can think of that will make me smile and laugh for the rest of my life thanks to the big fella. No way I'll be able to listen to Gordo or Dylan without choking back tears, but be assured I still will listen to bring me closer to Chris. I'm never going to forget our "catching up" conversations because they were random, but always seemed like we never missed a beat. They were a combination of jovial exchanges and life lessons and progressions. If I could only laugh with him one more time!! My sincerest sympathies are sent to his family, fiance', and all those that loved him like I did. He's no doubt fitted with a robust pair of wings in heaven now, and I will try to take comfort in that, but I miss him so much. This experience will change my life forever, and because of Chris I will be a better person for the rest of my life. My faith will not waiver and my smile and kindness will flow freely, because that's what Chris would do.
I was a good friend of Chris's in high school... he takes center stage in many of my "teenaged memories." Though I had not seen him in a few years, I still remember his wonderful ability to make people feel special, his great sense of humor, and of course, all of those "urges." I'm sure Chris is making God laugh and roll His eyes now, as he has done with so many of us.
My deepest sympathies go to Chris's fiancé, Doug, Diane and Sara. My thoughts and prayers are with you as we all struggle to make sense and, eventually, peace with this tragedy.
Ashlee (Bohannon) Clark
Chris was bigger than life in more ways than just his height. He was one of the few people I knew that instantly brightened a room. He was addictive to be around. I didn't get to see him as frequently as I would have liked and sometimes I would show up at the reunions and feel a little awkward having not seen anyone in so long, but that went away immediately when Christopher saw you.
He would walk up to you and embrace you like you had spent the entire summer together. He was a fantastic cousin and more importantly an incredible person. He was compassionate, loving, kind, smart, and hilarious.
I'll miss you Big Aristotle. We all will. But I know that should I make it to heaven one day and feel a bit out of place or awkward, you'll be there to give me a hug and a laugh.
I will never forget the times we spent joking around at olive garden while waiting to be seated by the hostess. Nor will I let go of the memories of the few times he would run me over on the basketball court. He was the most personable, outgoing, caring man anyone could ever know and i am honored to say I was a friend of his. Chris we planned to play golf this summer when I saw u and your fiance' at cracker barrel. I am sad that we have to have a rain check on this but one day we will play on the best golf course ever when I get there. My heart and prayers go out to the his family, fiance', and friends. Life is a gift and we must treasure it and never take it for granted.
Brendon Hope
Life is full of the unexpected but I would have never unexpected this. Chris was warm, funny, and down to earth. The reunion memories are endless with Chris. My favorite is when we were leaving the fish house and trying to make it back to Dixon, MS. We blinked and missed the sign, we all must have laughed for hours. I agree with James, there was never awkwardness with Chris.
Chris, you are an amazing person and now you are in an amazing place. Give grandma a hug from all of us.
Aunt Diann, Uncle Doug, Sara and Lauren - words cannot express how I feel and I cannot imagine how you feel. My deepest symapthy's are will all of you. Love you.
Seel...my God. I was always next to you alphabetically in school, and I actually felt short for once, standing next to you. I also felt like I would cry laughing. You and I had independent computer study together, just us, and the laughs rolled continously. Anyone that sat in the trombone section or near to it was always in stitches thanks to you. I just can't express how terrible I feel for your fiance and family, but I know that having you in their lives at all was a blessing for them. Let no one take their time with those they love for granted; you have taught us this. Got love for you Seel. -Seales
chris and I worked together for several years and his sister is one of my closest friends. We had one of those love hate relationships. I looked at him like a big brother a lot of the times. He would have me mad as all sin one minute and then cracking up laughing on the floor the next. Never in my life have I ever meet someone with so much character and I'm pretty sure I never will. I still cant make sense of it, I don't think anyone can. I do KNOW that he is with God and that gives me some peace.To his finance I can't imagine your pain. I will pray daily for God to give you strength and guidance to get you through this hard time. To his family I love you and you are in my constant thoughts and prayers
I remember Chris for his infectious sense of humor and how every day in mr. Hager's class he would find some crazy word in the dictionary and use it all day long as his "word of the day". My prayers go out to his family and fiance. You sure did know how to make a person smile Chris, you will be missed.
Aaron Atchinson
Wow-this came to a real shock to me as I am sure to many. I feel for your mother. It has to be the worse thing to happen to a mother - loosing your child. So young, so much to live for, and do yet. Chris & I were friend in high school & fellow players of the great game of basketball. Memories of many hours playing baseball at His Place/youth group (as with many others of you). I love that group of people. Chris included got me through some hard adolestant/middle school experiences. My heart hurts for Chris' family and fiance. I am so sorry for your loss. But have to say so I am grateful to have know Chris. I'll pray for you all.
Tracey Roberts-Fuller
Seelbach-YOU WERE JUST HERE! I just can NOT wrap my head around this. You were always very interested in all of us. You always seemed to really care when you asked how we were. I enjoyed how you hung on every detail of a story as if it was THE most amazing thing you had ever heard..
also-i know i can speak for alot of folks when i say that our vernacular had been enhanced having met you! hahaha
I am so sad for your family and Lauren-I am sad for my husband not having you around..
You were a great friend to us...and we will miss you so much!
Blessings to your Family!
Leslie Galema
Chris was a good friend of mine from middle and high school. He was so funny and full of life, very curious and asking tons of questions, and always making random/hilarious comments. Whenever I hear Gordon Lightfoot, I will always think of Seel and smile.
I am very confused and sad right now. The only sense I can make out of this is that God has bigger plans for him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and fiance. Chris has touched many different people and we will all mis him. All my love Seel!
Jackie (Haag) Vanderpol
Seel... seriously, in your own words, this is UN-real. The solace I find is in knowing you were a man of faith and I know you are with Christ now. My hear goes out to the family and friends and we will miss you greatly. I loved having you as a roomate at Anderson and I will never forget the laughs we had. Go with God and make sure you request a little Gordon Lightfoot while you are there.
UUUUH moDDerS! biLL moDDers! i love this man. too many memories to list. my heart goes out to doug, diane, sara and their whole family. Will Hubbard
Chris I have only fond memories of you. While I was with Taylor you were with Adam, and that alone was crazy enough but you always made it crazier!
I lived for your urges even when Adam was only egging you on. Playing basketball in my backyard, your epic battles with Big Rog. The away Michigan games would not have been the same if Seel wasn't in the picture.
I can only pray and wish the best for Seel's family and loved ones. My heart goes out to you in these trying times. But take comfort in knowing that although he is no longer with us I can't think of anyone better to watch down on us and protect, guide, and urge us in our own lives.
I will always remember you seel, and someday even tell my kids all about "Meat Chicken"
Moose Letourneau
Chris, I love you man. You've been my best friend and BROTHER since first grade. We know everything about each other, have laughed, cried, fought, and gotten into lots of trouble together over the last 23 years. No one could make me madder and no one could make me laugh harder than you. I have too many WONDERFUL memories with you to even mention. You had such a huge impact on my life, bigger than you even know. Never did I think the good Lord would take you home this early in your life but I find a small bit of peace in knowing you are making God laugh at this very moment with your crazy shenanigans. Your loss will sadden me for the rest of my life for it is not easy to lose a brother and I already long for the day we can have a good laugh once again in Heaven. I love you bro, I love you deeply.
-Aaron Kanitz
I played ball with Chris at Anderson and, while he was only there one year, I have SOOO many memories. I will carry each of them with me for the rest of my life - and laugh everytime I think of them! Seelbach, I loved talking sports with you and always enjoyed the times we spent together either watching games on TV or going up to Purdue to catch one. We had so many football and basketball games to go to (ones that we even already had scheduled) and I'm going to miss you not being there with me. What's so strange about this for me is that we just hung out over the weekend - and had a blast, too! I'm glad we got those 2 days together and finally got in our first round of golf together. Seelbach, you were a good buddy and I'll miss you.
Doug, Diane, Sara and Lauren - you will all be in my prayers.
Adam Galema
There is something to be said about a person that makes you feel like you have known them a lifetime when you have only just met them. Chris was one of the first people I had the privilege of meeting at family reunions and was immediately moved by his embracing kindness. His bright smile, friendship and curious wit always made him a pleasure to be around. I will always remember you this way and feel deeply saddened and shocked by your loss. May your family and friends find comfort and strength from seeing how many lives you touched with your pure soul.
Chris was my best friend---I was lucky enough to spend a day with him a few weeks ago--although we didn't see each other that often, we spoke on the phone nearly every day. The kid had an amazing zest for life--always smiling, always upbeat--you always knew he genuinely cared about you and what was going on in your life. Anybody who has met Chris knows how unique he really was---you meet a person like Chris once in a lifetime. I already miss him so much--we may lay his body to rest on Saturday, but I will carry my memories of him with me for the rest of my days. No post about Chris could ever be complete without quoting some Dylan or Lightfoot---so for my fallen friend I leave this--"seen a shooting star tonight and I thought of you--you were trying to break into another world, a world I never knew--seen a shooting star tonight and I thought of you." Bob Dylan
Seel-
I am grateful that we got to hang out one last time a few weeks ago. I can not put into words the deluge of emotions flowing right now. You have had such an impact on my life, as well as so many others. I have spent the last two days with Paul and Dave. We have spent a great deal of time listening to Gordon and Bob and looking at pictures. The memories and stories we shared have crossed a diverse spectrum of emotions. We have laughed, cried, had ups, had downs and we went into deep thought provoking discussions on life. You would have been right at home! I will miss you deeply!
Craig Freestone
It's impossible to put into words what a wonderful person Chris was. He was obviously an extremely genuine person as he made an impact on all of our lives. To use his words, he was UNNNNNNNreal.
Take the time to treasure all of the special times you had with him and be grateful that you were able to have him in your life. I know he will forever be smiling down on all of us with that twinkle in his eye.
I will never forget all of the great things he brought to my life.
I did not have the pleasure of knowing Chris personally, however we were aquaintences at AU. He was always smiling and seemed so friendly.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family Lauren.
What a man Chris was. I unfortunately did not have the privilege of knowing Chris very well but, I always thought how loving it was that he would come have lunch with Lauren at the hospital. They were so cute together eating lunch on her break. And not to mention, his AMAZING proposal to Lauren in the hospital chapel. WOW ! He really loved her so much. I know he will be missed by so many people.
Travis and I were talking about the fact that sincerely there was not another person we knew quite like Chris. His humor and genuine interest in the lives of others was such a special thing. He also kept us on our toes with his random use of interesting and never before heard words- vernacular happened to be one I always remember. I am certain Travis has many more stories to share but from my end I will always remember Chris's huge smile, big hugs, and upbeat personality. My heart and prayers go to all of his family and loved ones.
Jess Daugherty
Chris was a close friend in middle school and high school. He only lived a few blocks away so I spent many days shooting hoops in his driveway. Chris had such a unique personality. He would do the craziest things to make people laugh. I always remember him saying "say it again, Jill, say it again." Of course I would say what ever it was again just to make him happy. Chris will be deeply missed by many friends and family. I am keeping Chris and his family in my prayers.
Sincerely, Jill Benson
I first became friends with Chris in college through classes. And he picked on me everyday after that. I think our professors hated us! I miss going to visit him after college, when he bought his house and I got to come see what he had done to it and what he was going to do to it. He was so excited! It was fun to see him so excited about something he was doing because normally he was busy asking about you or what you were up to. And of course there were the Gordo concerts... I will miss his Gordo and Dylan serenades and his honesty. Chris would always tell it like it is. Too many memories to count. I miss you already Seel. My thoughts and prayers go out to Lauren and Chris' family.
Chris, my memories of you serve as a reminder of what good friends are for -- to keep us from taking ourselves too seriously.
You delighted me with your antics throughout middle and high school...from opening my calculator before class to find something hilarious written by you in upside-down type, to those snakes that failed to survive our biology "experiment," and most of all, that eager smile and throw your head back laugh. Growing up was so much more fun because you were around to give it your wise, lighthearted touch. You treated each of us like we were the most fascinating person you'd ever met, and everyone was drawn to you (probably because you actually were the most fascinating person we'd ever met). We were blessed with your friendship. You will be dearly missed.
Goot
Chris ambled into our family and our hearts in 2000, his last year at Alma College. He greeted each new day as an adventure and took us along with him. His enthusiasm was contagious.
Our shared interest was Gordon Lightfoot. When he learned that I still had my original GL records from the 60’s in the basement, he just about flew down the stairs to see them. He loved them and I knew he was the perfect person to be their new owner. It is sweet to read the common thread that GL played in so many of Chris’ friendships.
To the Seelbach family, Lauren, and all of Chris’ friends, my prayers go with you in the weeks and months ahead.
Cheryl Kaiser (An Alma College Mom)
Seel you will be missed....what a loved man you are. You had a way of accepting people for who they were and really were interested in finding out who that was. We had many great times for the one year we had together at Anderson. We automatically clicked over our love of the old hymns....constantly bugging your roommates by singing many a duet as loudly as possible! I remember when you invited me home for an early thanksgiving meal with your family, you all made me feel very welcome and I had a great time. You blessed me by being an usher in my wedding and made the whole day so much fun for all those there. You even got to walk my
4'9" grandmother down the aisle and made her laugh by saying, "what's up shorty?" That was quite the picture! You have made a forever imprint on my life and on all of those that you have met. This is UN-real but I know that you are up singing the Church's Jubilee with Jesus and all of the saints who have gone on before you! I can't wait to sing some more duets when we meet again! My prayers are with your family, Lauren, and your closest of friends!
Chris,
I am sorry that your life ended so shortly. You were an amazing person who I will never forget. I still remember practice when you were so mad and you said things were a "debackle".
You introduced me to Gordon Lightfoot and because of you, I listen to him often. I wish I could have spoken to you one last time to just say hi and ask you how life was going.
Doug and Diane, you had an amazing son! We all loved "Bucket".
I met Chris my junior year of college and boy, did he bring new words and excitement into my life! I remember him inviting me to come to Olive Garden where he worked so he could "hook us up" with OG specials. I had the honor of writing a story on Chris for one of my journalism classes Senior year. Chris always brought a smile to my face and was always a genuine man. I didn't know much about Gordon Lightfoot until Chris exposed me to his songs. I have since downloaded my favorite Gordon Lightfoot song in honor of Chris. I will never forget Chris and the way he impacted those around him. I don't understand why this happened, however, I can only hope God is laughing in heaven by having Chris at his side.
My prayers are with Chris's fiance and family.
Melissa Shaul
Chris made my first year of college so easy. I had the pleasure of hanging out with him and getting to know some of his other wonderful friends. I'll never forget him.
My thoughts and prayers go out to his fiance and family.
College Photos 1999-2000
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My name is Tony Colucci. I played basketball with Chris at Alma College from 1997-2000. I was deeply saddened by the news of Chris’ passing (oddly enough Chris passed on my 30th birthday). I cannot say enough how much I appreciated his presence the 3-4 years that Chris was in my life. He was a breath of fresh air, a devoted teammate (no matter the circumstance), and a concerned friend.
Those that don’t know - I have the honor of being the person who coined the nickname “Bucket”. The first time I played basketball with Chris, I made a pass to him as he was “posting up”. For those that don’t understand basketball – a post pass is sometimes very difficult if the man posting up does not make himself “big” – Chris never had that difficulty. Thus, I said throwing a pass to him was as easy as throwing the ball into a huge “Bucket”…the nickname followed – and I am proud to see that it stuck.
Chris was physically in my life for a short time, but I cannot count how many times I have referenced him in a story or thought of him and smiled in the 7 or so years since I last spoke with him. His physical presence was indeed deserved of his nickname - the big “Bucket”… but I would be hard pressed to have the words or a nickname to describe the size of Chris’ heart. We have truly lost one of the good guys.
Thank you Bucket – Heaven has added a special player to their roster.
My sincerest prayers go out the Seelbachs and everyone that Chris impacted.
Chris and I met as cub scouts in second grade and our friendship continued through middle school and high school. There were many trips together and many games played together ('Potential Atrocity' was by far the best name for our team Chris). It's been said before but it merits being said again, this guy was larger than life - brightening every space he walked into. I love you man.
Seel,
I will always remember our "David and Goliath" wars on Euclid street. I will always remember the sixteen-ply toliet incident that nearly caused me to rebuild my bathroom (and flood my basement). I will always remember you as one of the most intelligent people I have ever met. Most of all Seel, I will always remeber you as someone none of us will ever forget.
Josh
Hey Chris!
We all really miss you! I always looked forward to when you came to visit because I knew there would never be a dull moment during your stay! You always had some funny comment or story to tell me and Paul. I have so many wonderful and unforgettable memories that Paul and I had with you and I definitely will never forget any of them! You were definitely Paul's best friend and you probably talked to Paul more on a daily basis then I did! He looked up to you more than you will ever know. You were one of the most unique, intelligent, talented and caring individuals I have ever met and I know that I will never meet another person like you for the rest of my life. You are definitely one of a kind! (: You will be deeply missed.
Chris,
I can see your big smile sometimes as I look up into the sky. Somewhere in the clouds I believe you are looking down and you see and some how know all of the incredibly, huge number of people who loved you so much and are amazed at how much you positively impacted so, so many people in so many ways. God probably doesn't let us know while we're still on the earth b/c He wants to keep us humble - if we knew perhaps we wouldn't stay as sweet, loving, caring, giving, and humble as you always were. I am so very blessed that God chose your family to be my foster family way back in 1987. After living with your family for only a short time, I knew, I was HOME. From the beginning you were always a sweet brother to me. You always loved me and accepted me as your then - bigger and older - and soon after just older sister. You were so fun and funny that when I felt out of place of insecure you just lightened things up and it helped me feel at home through some of the darkest and hardest days of my life. Then in the more recent years my children we again blessed to have you "their big uncle Chris" be a big positive, fun, loving, funny, giving, person in their lives. I thank God every time I think of you for giving me the unmerited blessing of having you
"one of God's great specimans" be a special part of my, my husband, and my children's lives.
It makes me realize more than ever how precious time is and how important it is to make the most of every moment I have with my children and the one's I love b/c we just never know how much more time we will have with each of them. So, God is reminding me to cherish each day with each person I love and each person He places in my life esp. my children b/c I never know if it could be my last.
We all miss you so much our hearts ache! But we are all able to laugh when we think of you and all of the joy and laughter you brought into our lives and we know that you are in Heavenly Bliss!
I look forward to seeing you there again someday Bub!
Love,
Your little - but - older sister,
Dana
Sunday night at His Place, trying to D up against you and my braces come thru my lip as you make your move. You smile at me as you help me up.
Chris' positivity was infectious, and even at this moment I couldn't be mad at him. I'd take ten elbows from you right now if I could big guy.
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you that are missing Chris.
Haus,
I’m listening to “Sundown” right now. Memories of Brad’s parent’s living room and Dos Equis are flowing through my head. I will never forget our dissection of Gordo’s lyrics!
I've pretty much been listening to Carefree Highway non-stop for the past two weeks.
It still hurts, we miss you bud.
Tribe Called Quest! ! !
chris....I miss you so much man...
It was great for you to come back to Alma and reminisce....The intense games of basketball were well worth it....It was just great to have the conversation with you, I'm glad I was able to have you at my house for those 2 days. It's gonna stink to not see you at the Anderson football game this season...I was looking forward to seeing you after some of my games...It's gonna be tough that first game playin for Taylor to not see you afterwards....
Dad Gummit, I'm gonna miss you, you jackal!
Thanks for always listening to me and making me feel important...It's really hard to see a guy like you to pass away....
PS. We'll have to play game 3 in heaven...No home court advantage that way!
It is hard for me to pick out a story or memory of Chris because we spent so much time together thru out life....it all was just normal to me. I have been having dreams of Chris.. which reminds of the proverbial pre-game rituals he would do...every single game. First there was the pregame "D" he took in the locker room. And yes this is what Pat Collins was talking about at the service...(Great Story!!) Pregame ritual #2, Chris would sit in front of his locker and sometimes need help picking what sock to put on first. He would have someone pick out the sock, start tapping his foot..probably about 8-12 times. Then in one swooping motion, he would try to put his sock on..always UNsuccessfuly on the first try. You guessed it, lets start tappin' the foot again, now he would try to to put on his sock again, but this time would try crossing his leg on top of his knee to put it on. FRIIIICKIN' A!!!! he would yell out as he would finally go thru that routine a few mores times, get the size 14's on and then go Frickin' DOMINATE whoever happened to be guarding him that night. I felt sorry for some of those guys who thought they could stop his patented spin move from the left block. (I knew if I passed it in I wasn't gettin' the ball back!!)You know it's comin', but there is absolutley nothing you can do to stop it. We didn't see this tragedy coming though Chris, I miss you bro.
I knew Chris when I was young and he was younger. We were on the basketball court together. He was trying to figure out how to be so big and tall, and I was trying to explain how it happened to me. And then we grew up at different stages and in different directions. And it wasn’t until I heard this news and read these remembrances that learned that he figured it out. I did not know Chris as a man, but I can see who he is through these words. I am proud of Chris for what he did in his life, who he touched along the way, and how he will be remembered by all.
-jon kapp
I had seen Chris just a week before, as I was leaving for a trip, when him and Lauren asked about using my sound equipment for their reception. So, I set a reminder on my phone to get that ready for them when I got home the following week. What a strange and awful feeling it was when that reminder popped up saying, "Get sound equipment for Chris and Lauren's reception," right as I was getting ready to go to Chris' funeral. Life is an incredibly perplexing thing that is not always easy to accept. But thankfully, we have the hope that Christ gives us that the end of life on this earth is merely a step into an eternal life more immaculate and incredible than can be imagined. Lauren, Doug, Diann, Sara, and the rest of the Seelbach family: we haven't stopped praying for you as you continue to live the lives that God has blessed you with. It's hard to live with a person as vibrant, loving, and caring as Chris for a year and a half and not be impacted by him. Chris was a fantastic reflection of love of your family, Seelbachs. God did a good work with Chris through all of you.
With love,
Curt Anderson
My memories of Chris were during his time at Alma College. He was an awesome basketball player. He was my first introduction to Gordon Lightfoot. He always wore a smile and was just a fun person to be around. I knew his dad and got to know some of his friends from HS. I was shocked and surprised to hear about his passing and really want to send prayers to his family and very special fiance'. We'll all see him again someday and are comforted in knowing he's left a huge mark on our lives. He'll definitely be missed!
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